Showing posts with label myself. Show all posts
Showing posts with label myself. Show all posts

Sunday, July 14, 2013

10 Things I want to Change about Myself [UBC Post 15]

Here are 10 things which I would like to change about myself:

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  1. I need more patience. I am short in that department though motherhood is giving me some lessons but I can always do with some more.
  2. I crave perfection. Many times there isn’t enough time or resources to accomplish that, which really disappoints me. You can see that in my blogging too. Most of the times I keep thinking of that perfect topic to write about and therefore not write everyday. If I could only forget about perfection and complete the task at hand somehow, I wouldn’t be so behind in this Challenge.
  3. I am extremely unsocial. I don’t like parties, get-togethers and their brothers and sisters. I am also reluctant to meet new people. Many times I have to be threatened to meet new people (mostly by husband). I am most social online. My offline personality is not like that.
  4. I sleep very late every day, promising myself that I would sleep early the next day, which of course never happens. It is a vicious circle. You sleep late one day, then wake up late the next day, and then again sleep late and so on!
  5. I use most of my free time in cleaning and putting things in order. I could use that time more productively in reading and writing. In any case, when the little one wakes up all the work goes down the drain. No wonder my husband never gets it why I go around putting things in order all the time.
  6. I want to be more open to new things, new people, new experiences. My adventure quotient is zero.
  7. I need to cut down time on internet, may be use the limited time more productively and accomplishing more by focus. It is easy to drift off into a different tangent while surfing net.
  8. I am quick-tempered. I don’t need to explain why I want to change this. OK so I will just say, anger makes you say a lot of things which you don’t really mean, and then you regret.
  9. I am a control freak. If I had my way (and if I had time), I would do everything myself.
  10. I would like to call people who mean a lot to me, more often. My parents tell me I don't talk to them enough. My brother tells me I don't call him at all. My Best Friend complains I never call her back even when I tell her (when she calls) that I would. I would like to get in touch with friends who I always think about but never put enough efforts in talking to them. 
You may also want to read: 15 Things I Love About Myself.

Note: I hope it is obvious that I love many more things about myself than I want to change. 

Saturday, July 13, 2013

15 Things I Love About Myself [UBC Post 14]

I thought today I will indulge in some self-love because true happiness comes from being happy with yourself.

I love about myself ...
  1. That I can go to a person and say ‘sorry’ if I realize that I was wrong.
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  2. I am not addicted to TV or any online (computer / mobile) games, though I am addicted to books, but I don’t think that’s bad. 
  3. That I am cleanliness freak. Though I admit it becomes crazy sometimes for my husband. 
  4. That I am creative. Creativity is something you are born with and I think I am blessed that way. 
  5. That I am quite low maintenance. I don’t crave for expensive gifts, jewelry, exotic holidays et. al. Give me books and I am happy.
  6. That I can make an awesome cup of tea. 
  7. That I don’t lie. After all, I have to be a good example to my child.
  8. That I am a good listener. 
  9. That I enjoy my own company. I never get bored of myself. 
  10. That I am a perfectionist. I go the extra mile to deliver my best. 
  11. That I am plan-oriented (or a listmaniac). I am comfortable when I have a list in hand. 
  12. That I don't drink - hard or soft drinks. I only drink tea, and sometimes water ;-)
  13. That I am unconventional in a lot of things. I don't try to fit in if I feel passionate about certain thing. 
  14. That I am warm and compassionate. I think that's my Taurean trait. I can do anything for a friend. 
  15. That I love my life. I have dreams but I am not chasing bigger house or bigger car or better pay cheque. I am living for 'peace of mind' and 'happiness'.


There are many more things which I love about myself but I will resist going overboard. Some other day!
So what do you absolutely love about yourself?


You may also want to read: 10 Things I want to Change About Myself.